What do you choose to believe?

Posted in Uncategorized on May 15th, 2007, 2:13 pm by yenjai

You have a boyfriend. You have been ‘going steady’ with him for the last two years.

Out of the blue (?) , your boyfriend suddenly seemed to fall for another girl. He stop calling you. He doesn’t want to SMS you.

Any effort to contact him only will end up with this new girl ridiculing you.

break up

In this Bolehland, people will give you all kind of ideas.

There are always people who tell you: Your boyfriend got ‘charmed’ / bomoh .

Are you the one who choose to believe in ‘charmed / bomoh’, or are you the kind who think that your boyfriend left you because he felt like leaving?

If you believe in ‘charmed / bomoh’, what would you do? Get another bomoh to de-bomoh-fied him?

16 Responses

  1. May 15th, 2007 | 4:50 pm

    “Out of the blue”…surely there are some signs to show his lack of interest?

    But always rememeber, only by letting the “old” go away, will a “better new ” one come along….

  2. May 15th, 2007 | 5:37 pm

    From someone who got dumped by her first boyfriend, I would advise her to forget about him and move on. Why lower her status by employing bomoh or charms to get him back. There are so many suitable partners out there. Her right man is out there.

    Time does heal wounds.

  3. May 15th, 2007 | 8:10 pm

    bomoh?

    LOL

  4. renae
    May 15th, 2007 | 10:40 pm

    Go out and celebrate? single-hood is something to be cherish, right? coz u also know it won’t be long ’till the next better one come along?~~:P:P

  5. May 15th, 2007 | 10:55 pm

    Haha~~ Out of all the reasons, I don’t think I can think of the charm.

    I guess I’ll firstly think if I did anything wrong to him. It might be responsibility on both sides when a relationship can’t last. If not, then it’s just that he doesn’t really love me or he doesn’t love me enough. I guess I’ll definitely go and ask for a reason, even though I’ll be ridiculed. I still won’t think of the charm. :p

  6. May 16th, 2007 | 12:13 am

    his loss…..poor thing!

  7. May 16th, 2007 | 8:14 am

    If he dun wan me, never mind lah, I oso go find anarder man lor.

  8. May 16th, 2007 | 8:31 am

    Haha. Guess I will print out all your responses and show her.
    Thank you all.

  9. May 16th, 2007 | 10:59 am

    Really kena charmed ar? Or is it a less supernatural reason?

  10. May 16th, 2007 | 1:47 pm

    If one person’s changed, we cant do anything…
    Just let go…
    Who know u will have a better tomorrow…

  11. May 16th, 2007 | 5:49 pm

    Eric, yup.
    Even till now, I still have ppl coming to me, claiming such thing

  12. May 17th, 2007 | 8:54 pm

    let go of him, let go of urself. He don’t even dare to face u himself (this new girl has to answer his call for him?) Even if he has cancer, i want to hear from his mouth too..

  13. May 17th, 2007 | 9:12 pm

    winnie wow. You are persistent ^-^

  14. May 18th, 2007 | 6:53 am

    hmm, issit? I’ll think thats ‘responsiblity’ for your own action :P I’ll know I had a choice (even if he has cancer, to want to stay with him or not, and wont regret). When I breakup with someone, I face him and tell him myself too.

  15. doc
    May 18th, 2007 | 4:26 pm

    Aiyoh, why charm the old one back? Ask the bomoh to charm a new cheng-leng-bak-jeng one for her lar. Good horse never eat turn head grass. :P

  16. May 18th, 2007 | 4:48 pm

    doc, if she can let go of him, then she wouldn’t even say that he was charmed, right?

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